Wednesday, May 20, 2015

Belgium


Day 1: Ostend

With Lilly's arrival earlier this month, we wanted to take advantage of the 1:1 adult, child ratio and check another country off our list. We drove the 3.5 hours from Luxembourg to our Airbnb rental in Ostend, unpacked, ate snacks and drove straight to McDonalds. Otto and Aksel only care about indoor play places and ice cream on trips. So we've been lucky enough to patronize McDonalds in France, the Netherlands, and Belgium. We feel so lucky.





Afterward, we went straight to the beach. It was raining and cold, but kids don't care. We walked to the water's edge (Aksel kept walking and was soaked from the knees down), hunted for seashells, and explained why barnacles are sharp.








We drove along the coast back to the rental, evaded a large Bernese Mountain Dog, tucked the kids in bed, ate several chocolate bars and watched a few hours of Belgium Netflix, which has surprisingly better and more options than Luxembourg Netflix.





Then Ben said, I love Apple TV, it may be the greatest invention ever.  





Day 2: Bruges & Atlantikwall

First things first. We dropped Ben off at Mobistar so he could get a Belgium sim card. Lilly and I parked the car, put Ingrid in a backpack, put the boys in the stroller, filled the stroller with supplies and then went to meet up with Ben. We were only lost for 10 minutes. Then we found Ben. Thirty seconds later Mobistar called and said Ben left the store without paying for the sim card. Classic.



Fifteen minutes later we wandered past countless tea rooms, bakeries, shops and chocolate confisseries to Markt Square and the Belfry of Bruges. After determining waiting in line for several hours to climb 366 steps with three children wasn't in everyone's best interest, we walked around, took lots of pictures, bought chocolate, listened to street musicians, eagerly anticipated the passage of horse drawn carriages and found our way to Burg Square.


















Another medieval square, we found ourselves in front of the Bishop's Palace, the Town Hall, the Old Civil Registry, the Holy Blood Basilica and a wedding.

We convinced our children to leave Burg square (and horses) with the promise of an exciting boat ride. Ben went in search of cash and took the boys pee while Lilly and I and Ingrid waited in line for a boat. Thirty five minutes later (read: eternity), we climbed aboard our boat and it was the highlight of our day. Everyone was really happy. Bruges is beautiful. The weather was perfect. Spring was in full force. And none of our children (read: Aksel) fell in the water.











We disembarked the boat and walked to Astrid Park (what a great name, if we have a fourth and its a girl, we will definitely name her Astrid), let the kids run wild and went in search of food. Ben and Lilly returned to the park with fresh bread, cheese, salami, grapes, nectarines, crepes, and waffles. Food in Europe is amazing. 

Aksel and Ingrid were ready for naps, so Otto took a turn in the back pack while the two little ones slept in the stroller. We meandered to Rozenhoedkaai (one of the most photographed spots in Bruges), bought a scoop of gelato for Otto, listened to a cellist outside of Onthaalkerk Onze-Lieve-Vrouw (Church of our Lady), and viewed Michelango's Madonna and Child.










Knowing our kids were done sight-seeing for the day, we made our way back to the car.

Unfortunately, I left the lights on when parking the car six hours earlier and as a result, the car battery was dead. Ben went to look for an employee of the parking garage. I asked the next man who walked by if he had jumper cables. He did (really rare in Europe).

Twenty minutes later, we were back in business and on our way to the beach enjoying the lingering pungent smell of our good samaritan. People either smell amazing or terrible here. There's no middle ground.



We headed back to Ostend and Raversyde, the Atlantic Wall Open Air Museum.

The German Atlantikwall, was one of the last major defense lines of this century. It was built by the German occupation forces in the period 1941-1944 along the coasts of France, Channel Islands, Belgium, Netherlands, Germany, Norway and Denmark. The main goal was to prevent allied landings on the shores of these countries. During this period, a total of 14,000 heavy, concrete bunkers were built. An amount that is impressive by the quantity, cost and involved labor. This portion of the fortifications survived because they were built on land belonging to Prince Charles, Count of Flanders who decided not to destroy them after liberation as a national monument.






For the boys, it was a chance to go on an adventure in tunnels, bunkers, on bridges and over sand dunes. They ran from one yellow arrow to the next, completing the tour in record time. Ben loved the old guns and cannons. Lilly loved experiencing a 150-minute audio tour with three children in 90 minutes and I loved how tired the children were afterward. I'm so glad I'm not a boy. And I'm so glad I'm not a boy in the army during World War II.







Day 3: Ghent

We spent the morning walking along and taking photographs on St. Michael's Bridge, touring Gravensteen Castle, visiting the Belfry Belfort Tower of Ghent and taking turns going inside the Cathedral St. Bavo to view the Ghent Altar Piece. We brought bubbles and would blow the bubbles for the kids every time we stopped to look at something. People love to watch our family survive in public.
















A food truck festival was underway as we headed back toward the car and we happily ate Belgian waffles, fresh fries (frites) with mayonnaise, and egg rolls as fast as we could while Ingrid and Aksel slept and the rain started to pour.







As we drove away, Ben revealed he had found and purchased Ghent's famous purple nose candy. Lilly and I eagerly ate a nose and announced we wouldn't be having a second. Ben then tried one and said, these taste like circus peanuts! and kept eating.

Lilly and I liked Bruges more than Ghent. Ben liked Ghent more than Bruges. I liked the food better in Bruges. Lilly and Ben liked the food better in Ghent. Basically, we recommend going to both places.

We promised Otto and Aksel a trip to McDonalds if they could survive the morning in Ghent and they were handsomely rewarded with Happy Meals, ice cream cones and all the indoor play they wanted with flemish children.





After taking a family nap, we ended the sight-seeing with an unsafe and un-santitary, but free, visit to a farm down the road from our Airbnb. Otto then declared this farm to be the best part of his day and trip.

We bathed and put the kids to bed, and then Lilly and I headed into Ostend to get kebabs, walk along the beach and wander through awkwardly crowded stores. We ended the night by eating a lot of stroopwafels and reveling Belgium Netflix for one last night.



Day 4: Church

Making it to 9:30 a.m. church with a 1.5 hour travel time isn't a problem when everyone (read: Otto & Aksel) wake up at 6 am consistently. Surviving three hours of church when Otto and Aksel wake up at 6 a.m. is another story. 

By 8 a.m., the car was packed, the kids were strapped in, iPads were handed out, snacks were being consumed, and we were on the road, driving along canals and fields of Belgian meat cows. It was beautiful.




We pulled into the parking lot of the LDS S.H.A.P.E. (Supreme High Allied Powers of Europe) branch building at 9:26 and we walked in the building. People were so excited we had come and openly wished we would make the two-hour drive from Luxembourg each week. We had an entire (long) bench to ourselves for Sacrament meeting and at the conclusion, Aksel took himself to nursery and Otto asked where his classroom was. Ben, Lilly and I consumed the large bag of peanut m&ms I wisely purchased the night before during Sunday school and then Lilly, Ingrid and I headed to Relief Society with five other women where I unwisely offered to accompany the hymns we sang on the piano.

After church, we spread a blanket out on the grass, unpacked our picnic lunch, changed our clothes and talked with a few members of the branch, swapping travel and adventure stories. As we drove away, I had the following conversation with Otto.





O: When am I going to see my friends again?
T: Which friends? 
O: My Belgium church friends. 
T: I don't know. Did you like going to church here today?
O: There's a talent show on Saturday night at 6 o'clock. Are we going to see them on Saturday? 

I love that Otto listened to the announcements in Primary. 

Sometimes leaving Luxembourg makes me really mad at Luxembourg. Why does Belgium get better shows on Netflix? Why does an itty bitty branch in the middle of nowhere in Belgium get a big beautiful church building? Why is everything less expensive outside of Luxembourg? Why can products like Vitamin Water and Barbecue sauce make it to Germany, the Netherlands and Belgium, but not make it the additional 15 minutes across the border into Luxembourg?

But leaving Luxembourg also makes me love our home in Luxembourg. No matter how magical the trip was, I'm always ready to come home and I'm always grateful for the life and friends (come back Packer family!) we have in Luxembourg.

Belgium was beautiful. I feel so lucky and blessed to see incredible pieces of art and history, eat fresh waffles, ride a boat along canals teeming with flowers, and watch my family thrive and adapt and enjoy this adventure together. 

Tuesday, May 19, 2015

Aksel turns three


Dear Aksel, 

You're three years old! I can't believe it. It's so exciting and so happy. I love watching you grow and learn new things and hear you say new things. I love watching you jump from something high. I love hearing you call out for Lilly. I love seeing you give Ingrid her water bottle. I love hearing you sing Follow the Prophet at the top of your lungs. I love the way you lean into me for anything you need. I love the way your little, thick hand reaches out for mine. I love the way you grab my face and kiss me. I love your heart. I love how gentle and good and kind you are. Thank you for coming to me three years ago. Thank you for being such a good baby and such an understanding brother. 



During the past month you've learned to sleep in a bed, played in the Braun's backyard with Kali and Yara, learned to ride a scooter, watched a duck race, really figured out how to defend yourself and retaliate against Otto, spent a day in Frankfort and a weekend in Belgium, walked into the ocean, touched an open flame, ate a lot of chicken nuggets, went to a butterfly garden, got bit in nursery, woke up at 6 am consistently, and solidified your interest in trains. 


You're a good little boy. You're sweet, you're loving, you're good. I love when you ask me to sing to you. I love when you yell, come here mama! I love when you run full speed from the front door to my legs in the kitchen. I love when you try to climb up a slide. I love when you select a flower or a bush or a blade of grass that you'd specifically like to pee on. I love when you scoop up your carrots from your plate and eat them all in one bite. I love when you sing the Chuggington theme song at the top of your lungs. Happy birthday, little buddy. 

Tuesday, May 12, 2015

Otto turns four


Dear Otto,

Today you turned four. I kept telling you things about when you were a baby or the day you came out of my tummy. You love that. Your face lights up. You love the stories. You love to hear what you ate, what you looked like, who you loved, what we did and where we went. 

I can't believe you're four. I can't believe you're here. I can't believe you're mine. You are everything to me. I love you. 



All month, you talked incessantly about your birthday. We looked at calendars. We counted days and weeks and you wanted me to describe the details of your anticipated birth date. 

We had a Paw Patrol birthday party for you and Aksel the evening Lilly arrived from Utah. The Mullins, the Packers, and Star Andrews came. We sang, we ate cupcakes, we ate popcorn, we opened gifts, and we watched Paw Patrol. 






This past month you learned to ride a bike, found your first crab, learned how to play Chutes & Ladders, gave a primary talk in both English and French, went to the Netherlands, translated Luxembourgish for your immigrant mother, checked out library books, went to a duck race, fed reindeer carrots, fought with Aksel, kissed Ingrid, sat in an airplane, went to a butterfly garden, ate gelato, and road a canal boat in Amsterdam.




On your birthday, we took Funfetti cupcakes to school with you and your class sang Happy Birthday to you in English. At lunch, Dad came home from work and we ate donuts, sang Happy Birthday, opened presents, called Grandma and Grandpa, played with Legos, played with play dough, and then spent the afternoon at Zig Zag with the Mullins. After an epic meltdown about wanting soda instead of water to quench your thirst, we came home and ate homemade pizza, watched Paw Patrol, had a few more meltdowns, fought over a few helicopters and then collapsed into your bed.

You claim you're taller and stronger now that you're four, and I believe you. 

Honestly Otto, it's been a really hard month. You've had lots of anger, lots of meltdowns, lots of hitting, lots of crying, and lots of hard moments. But the moments when we're alone, when you're holding my hand, when you're asking me thoughtful questions, when your face lights up with happiness, when you hug me tightly, when you say I love you too, without missing a beat, when you play Chutes and Ladders, when you successfully ride your bike, when you share with Aksel, when you kiss Ingrid, when you run and jump into Ben's arms, when you look at Lilly with adoration, and when you sing The Spirit of God at the top of your lungs, I feel as if my heart may burst. It carries us all through. It lets us forgive and fall in love with each other all over again. 






I love you, Otto. Thank you for coming to our family. Thank you for pushing me to the limit. Thank you for teaching me more about the Savior and the Atonement than I ever expected to learn. Thank you for teaching me humility. Thank you for teaching me love. Thank you for letting me fail over and over again only to quickly forgive me. Thank you for being my little Ottobot. 

Mom